Resources and Articles

a growing collection of articles exploring curiosity, pressure, productivity, creativity, anxiety and meaningful progress.

These pieces are reflections from real conversations, lived experience, and years of working with students navigating expectations, overwhelm, pressure, university and ambition.

If you’re interested in sustainable growth, you’ll find something here worth exploring.

The Multitasking Myth

This article explores why multitasking isn’t what it seems. Rather than helping you get more done, constant task-switching quietly fragments your attention and drains your energy. By looking beneath the surface of distraction, it reveals how mental overload — not laziness or lack of discipline — is often the real cause. Through a simple, human lens, the piece shows how focus isn’t something you force, but something that returns when the mind has space to settle.

Why the busiest term always feels the quietest?

We often dread the busiest seasons of our lives, assuming pressure equals stress. In this reflective piece, I explore the strange serenity found in the 'exam season' and how a afternoon in the garden revealed a surprising truth: it isn't the weight of our tasks that drains us, but the speed of the stories we tell about them.

Just Do What You’re Drawn To

This piece explores what it really means to “do what you’re drawn to” — beyond clichés and surface-level advice. Through a personal story of facing multiple life-changing opportunities at once, it unpacks how overthinking can pull us away from what we instinctively know is right. If you’ve ever felt stuck between logical choices and what feels right, this is a reminder that clarity doesn’t always come from thinking harder — sometimes it comes from learning to listen.

What Wednesday flowers taught me about burnout

What started as a week of flu and household chaos ended with a quiet lesson in a vase of dying flowers. This is a story about the subtle difference between being 'broken' and simply being in the wrong environment—and why a small reset is often better than a total overhaul.

Learning to Bend without Breaking

University rarely goes exactly as planned. What starts with structure and intention often shifts into something far less predictable. This article explores adaptability as one of the most important skills students develop — learning how to adjust expectations, respond to challenges, and keep moving forward even when the path changes.

The support I never reached for

During my degrees I chose to go it alone, despite being eligible for support. The degrees went well, but the experience was far harder than it needed to be. This article reflects on that journey and why asking for help is often a sign of strength, not weakness.

The Strange Psychology of the Final Week

As the end of term approaches, something interesting begins to happen. Students who felt overwhelmed just weeks ago suddenly seem more optimistic, even though the workload hasn’t decreased. In this article I explore the psychology behind this shift, why seeing the finish line changes our perspective, and how the mind responds when the end of a challenge finally comes into view.

When Fear Writes the Script

Sometimes the stories our minds tell us feel so real that we treat them like facts. In this article, I share a mentoring story about a student who almost missed an important family event because of a future they were certain would happen. What followed was a powerful reminder that our minds can be brilliant storytellers—but not always reliable narrators.

The Biggest Challenges I See at University

Students are constantly told that their degree is the most important thing about university. But what about everything else? The sudden independence, the messy kitchens, the awkward new friendships, and the pressure to know what your life will look like in twenty years. This article explores the real challenges students face at university — the ones that rarely appear in the prospectus.

Who Do I See As a Mental Health Mentor

University students often arrive carrying anxiety, stress, and a sense of overwhelm. From a mental health mentor’s perspective, those challenges are only part of the story. This article explores the other side—the creativity, empathy, determination and quiet strengths that many students possess but don’t always recognise in themselves.

You Control Less Than You Think

We often feel like we should have control over everything — our plans, our thoughts, our future. But the more we try to control it all, the more overwhelmed we can become. This article explores a simple idea: the only moment we truly have control over is the one we’re in right now. Through a simple metaphor and reflection on overthinking, it offers a different way to look at the thoughts that constantly pass through our minds.

The Career Panic Myth

You’re in your final year. Everyone keeps asking what’s next. Graduate schemes, job applications, LinkedIn updates — it suddenly feels like your entire future hangs on one decision. The pressure builds, your thoughts spiral, and one “what if?” turns into a hundred worst-case scenarios. This article explores why career panic feels so loud at university, how catastrophising quietly takes over, and why the answers you’re chasing rarely appear when you’re forcing them. Through real experiences, grounded psychology and a simple but powerful metaphor, you’ll see why slowing down isn’t falling behind — it might be the smartest move you make.

Procrastination isn't Laziness

I used to believe procrastination was a discipline problem. Deadlines forced action, panic created productivity, and somehow the work always got done. but beneath the surface, something else was happening. This article explores why procrastination isn't laziness at all - it's protection - and what that means for students trying to thrive under pressure.

Pressure and Expectations Kill Curiosity

For years, I believed pressure was the secret to productivity. Deadlines created urgency. Urgency created results. But after mentoring countless students — and reflecting on my own habits — I began to see the hidden cost. Pressure might produce output, but it quietly destroys curiosity. And without curiosity, progress doesn’t last. This article explores why expectations may be sabotaging your creativity — and what truly drives meaningful success.